Fellow soft-butch-boi chiming in here! Great article, I too struggle a lot with these words. Some of them seem fitting…but not exactly. I like using both she and they as my pronouns, but I don’t identify with “non-binary,” and I definitely don’t identify as “trans.” Perhaps I don’t feel oppressed “enough,” if that even makes sense? Hm, I’m not sure. All I know is that I feel “feminine-of-centre” in relation to the rest of human society, but a genderless blob just trying to exist on most days.